oh...by the way...tried doing this both wireless and wired.....same issues....vista can see in, but 7 can't see out (well, it can - it pings the router successfully and gets to the internet)....this is what makes me believe that it is something on the Vista machine since everything else on the laptop seems to be working perfectly....what setting on the Vista desktop am i missing....firewalls are off (both windows firewall and Windows firewall with advanced security (and both are also set to allow file and printer sharing anyway....the network adapter has Client for MS networks, file and printer sIPv4, IPv6,haring,QoS packet scheduler,link layer discovery mapper and LLDR.....both computers have private (vista is Private, W7 is Home), all sharing options (except password protect) are on on both machines........again ....AAAAARRRRGGGGHHHHHH!!!